6/30/2009

Stuff you never saw

Max's first day - June 30, 2001



Max's last day - August 31, 2008 12:04PM

















Later same day during Nic's premature 3rd birthday party. Max came out for a few minutes while Nic was getting his birthday presents. Max kept his eyes closed as the light was too bright for him outside. And he kept his throw-up bin resting under his chin - his security blanket it became.


OK, on to better days. Fall 2005 was a time when we didn't post much about life as we were too busy living life to the Max! So thought I'd show you some pictures of Max from Fall 2005. Usually late Summer/Fall sucks around here. My mom passed away in 2002 in August. My

October 2005, 23rd St Del Mar: Secret: come to San Diego in October. It's nice at the beach during the evening. In June and July, it's freezing!
October 2005, Miramar: Max and a Blue Angel at special Make A Wish airshow.
October 2005: Max loved to fish with Papa, especially in the ocean or a lake!

October 2005: Max about to whack one.
See?
Sept 14, 2005: Nic was lucky, he had four people caring for him 24/7.
September 2005: Right before Nic was born. This is a series of pictures that I so love where Max and Melissa are totally enjoying each other and the general scene at the "park by the beach" which is our 2nd home on the weekends when it's sunny. Max had such a beautiful head; when his hair came in curly and blond it was the only way it could have been more kissable than when his hair was short and soft.

6/29/2009

Rockets

Tuesday is Max's birthday. Max's Cub Scout troop will salute him with a multi-rocket launch, then hi-tail it out of there and head over to the picnic. Here are the specifics:

Tuesday, June 30, 2009
2:00 - Rocket Launch
**email or call Andy or I for location**
strictly on the QT, DoD, PDA, CIA, NTK, etc...
2:30ish - Picnic
Carmel Creek Park (map)
Bring your own food and drink, chairs, etc.
Huge playground, green space, and parking in lot.
We will be there immediately following the launch.
Shoot me an RSVP if you plan on joining us. I will have a birthday cake and want to make sure I have enough for everyone (but not so much that I have to take it home and eat it!).
We hope to see you there for this last day of remembering Max on his birthday this year.

6/28/2009

Monday - Wii Night

Monday night we will continue our birthday celebration/remembrance of Max with Wii night at our house, 6:00-8:00pm.

We have two TV's and two Wii's so far (but only four controllers). If you're coming to play, bring along any Wii accessories you're comfortable sharing (and a TV if you're really adventurous!). For games we have mario kart, star wars, indiana jones, Wii sports, and ww2 flying aces.

We'll be set up in the garage. Bring lawn chairs. Email me if you have questions -- cureNB(at)gmail(dot)com. Hope to see you!

6/21/2009

Nacho Nic





Every mother's nightmare; every father's dream: Their 3-yr-old son wearing a Lucha Libre mask.







Out of all the cr*p Nic had his pick of at the SD County Fair, this is what he saw upon entering the fair and he held fast throughout. So when we exited, he picked out his favorite design.







Without Nic to remind us that there is a life to live even though Max isn't here any longer, I sometimes wonder what I would do.

6/17/2009

Max's Place

Max's permanent urn arrived today! More than 8 months in the making. We are so happy with it and with the artist Chris and Funeria who brokered the commission for us. More pictures soon as the detail is amazing, but this shot gives you a sense of the scale of his place. OK, yes, take a step back and realize that we're excited about an urn to hold the ashes of our 7-year-old son... but in relativeland which is where cancer parents live, this is a good day.

6/14/2009

Max's Birthday Fun

Max's birthday is fast approaching... June 30.

From Austin Melgar's blog we saw that his family had planned a whole week of events to celebrate Austin for his birthday. We loved the idea, and decided to adapt their idea for Max's birthday, albeit abridged to four days of fun Max's style. Our plan is to do activities as a family that Max loved to do, and as Max would've liked, invite his friends and extended family to join us and Live Life to the Max!

We are nailing down the specifics on everything, but here is a loose look at our plans, so you can set aside time to join us if possible...

Saturday, June 27, 2009
(confirmed)
Pizza Port
A family favorite for food and games.
4:00pm
135 N. Highway 101 - Solana Beach map
(858)481-7332

Sunday, June 28
(confirmed)
MIDWAY AIRCRAFT CARRIER
One of Max's all time favorite spots. WWII warbirds, modern day fighter jets, and a huge ship. We'll see you onboard.
12:00 noon
Midway admission:
$17 adults
$13 seniors (62+) and students (with valid ID)
$10 retired military (with valid ID)
$9 youth (ages 6-17)
$0 (ages 5 and under)
**
Monday, June 29
(unknown location at this time)
Wii Night - woo-hoo!
Video games got Max through a lot of crappy days - and through a lot of just plain ol' good days! Little known fact: Hannah & Max knew the entire story line of the Star Wars trilogies before they ever saw a movie thanks to the Lego Star Wars game. Max's favorite character: "the Gen" aka General Grievious.
6:00-8:00pm
location TBD
Check back for location confirmation.

Tuesday, June 30
Max's Birthday
(check back for details on locations)
Cub Scouts & Rockets.
On this very special day Max's Den Buddies will launch seven rockets in memory of Max. We will follow-up this salute with a picnic (bring your own stuff) and birthday cake (provided).
Location of rocket launch & Picnic TBD
2:00ish

RSVP's are not neccessary, but appreciated - especially for Monday & Tuesday. I could also use a little help coordinating the Wii/video game night. We have one Wii and one Playstation, along with one TV we can take along. Can you provide a TV, game station, extra controllers, etc.? Get in touch with me.

6/12/2009

Visit Alexa


**Link has been fixed**

Alexa's big sister, Abby, has been in contact with Andy & I for the past few weeks. They had made the trip to VT from Ohio and hoped to get Alexa on Dr. Sholler's trial, but found out that wouldn't be possible. Alexa's cancer had progressed too far. Dr. Sholler couldn't even recommend any treatment options.

Please take a moment to visit their website and give them your love. They need all they can get right now. Little Alexa writes some of her own updates. Please sign-up for Journal Updates so she knows you're there.

Thank you.

6/09/2009

June 27 Train ride CANCELLED

If you purchased tickets for the June 27th train ride in Campo, it's been cancelled! I just found out - and not because they contacted me with the news. "Due to circumstances beyond our control, all Museum rail excursions on the railroad mainline have been temporally canceled." Bummer!

You can email them support@sdrm.org for ticket refunds.

Andy & I are just about ready to post our plans for Max's birthday week, so check back here frequently. We'd love to have you join us at one or all. (We are figuring out what to replace this train ride with!)

6/02/2009

$10,000


We did it. After tallying the online donations + at-event donations + some just-received-in-the-mail donations, Max's Ring of Fire raised just over $10,000 for neuroblastoma research!
Wow.
Touch-A-Truck was a huge success in every facet.
Thank you. Everyone.

Now for the photos! I've obviously posted a few here, but you can see more from our new friends at SRD - Strategic Racing Design - who brought our their fully outfitted pre-runner to the mix, in representation of off-road trucks and wrote a very nice blog post about the event. We've also received many photos uploads on our Facebook page - become a fan!! For a big look at the event, check out our Flickr Album.
If you have any great photos you'd like to share with us from Touch-A-Truck, please email them to me at cureNB(at)gmail.com. I'd love to see them!


Special thank you's must go out to all the really nice people who took four+ hours out of their Sunday afternoon to sit around in a parking lot and let kids climb in, on and all over their vehicles to benefit a pediatric cancer that they may have never heard of before. I wish that Andy & I had had more time to spend talking to each and everyone of you, to thank you over and over again, for giving us your precious time and vehicles to benefit a cause so close to our hearts. I hope you had even a 1/4 as much fun as all the kids did. (And thanks for tolerating all the horn honking! It did bring the place to life, don't you think?)

Which reminds me that our San Diego Star Wars Society made a lot of kids happy, too! I loved seeing the Clone and Storm Troopers in the vehicles as much as seeing the kids in them!

6/01/2009

Touch-A-Truck Success!

Nicky & Daddy in the back of the "small" dump truck.


I'm just making a short post about our fundraiser right now, because there's so much to say and I just don't have enough time to put all my thoughts in order this morning.

Most importantly, I want to thank my friend Leigh for doing a splendid job of organizing this event for us - especially since none of us had any idea where to begin and what to expect. In one month she put in about 2+ months of volunteer time spearheading a very successful fundraiser.

We haven't tallied all the dontions, but we believe we raised about $8,000 for neuroblastoma research! Not too shabby, I say. Max's Ring of Fire is very thankful to Leigh, everyone who volunteered to help, the wonderful people who brought their trucks to a parking lot on a Sunday, and to all the generous people who donated their money to a worthy cause.

Thank you. It was a great way to celebrate my birthday.

(We have 100's of photos that we will upload later today for your viewing pleasure!)

5/31/2009

Touch

In honor of recent NB angel Erin Buenger and her wonderful mom Vickie, today's post title is a verb. Mosey over to Erin's blog (appropriately re-titled, "Let's Do It!" after her passing) and read Vickie's latest post about Luke Skywalker and his mission in life.

Just a quick last-minute post about today's Touch A Truck fundraiser that we're putting on to raise money for neuroblastoma research. We've been doing most of our marketing for the event through local news and Facebook, not so much this blog, as so many of its readers are not local. However, for the 10-15 of you in America that are not on Facebook yet, if you're in San Diego today and looking for something to do from 12-3pm, come on over to Canyon Crest Academy in the eastern portion of Carmel Valley just north of the 56 for Touch A Truck. This is a family-friendly event that will have construction trucks, garbage trucks, race trucks, race cars, etc, that kids can touch, climb on, climb in, honk, and generally play on and around. We'll even have a car that kids can paint themselves! Our goal is to raise $10,000 from this event and checking last night we're well on our way with $2,500 in advance ticket sales/donations online already! 100% of the ticket money/donations goes to NB research. Melissa and I have footed the bill for all the rentals/permits/marketing expenses, or they are donated.

The weather today is still not cooperating but by 12 noon it should be somewhat less foggy. I can't tell you how much I hate this time of year in San Diego - its been overcast for the entire day by the beach for more than a week, and unlike other cities that come to mind (San Francisco, Portland, Seattle), San Diego does not wear the color gray well. Still, the purpose of why we are holding the event - honoring Max and raising $$ ofr NB research - doesn't diminish my joy and pride at all the work that Melissa and the legion of volunteers have done to make today happen. We will post an update later today or tomorrow after the event with pictures and a total amount that was raised.

5/26/2009

Developments in Neuroblastoma Symposium

 
On Thursday (21st), I attended the Developments in Neuroblastoma Symposium at the University of Vermont. Present were about 120 parents, researchers, doctors and pharmaceutical industry representatives, as well as some medical students and nurses. It was beautiful weather in Burlington - 88 degrees was the high that day.

After the dean of the medical college opened the Symposium, Dr. Giselle Sholler welcomed everyone and then I spoke briefly for a few minutes. I spoke about Max, about the need for greater collaboration using the example in an email from a friend, Alessandra Blassina, who is an oncology research scientist at Pfizer in La Jolla.

Some highlights of the day’s presentations:
  • David Krag, MD, did a great presentation on phage display for neuroblastoma. Phage display is a method of creating patient tumor-specific antibodies (phage are viral particles that infect bacteria - bacteriophage - which then make antibodies for you who might know what that means) which can then be attached to another molecule like a neurosphere (white blood cell). The patient tumor-specific antibody then easily finds and attaches itself only to tumor cells, and the proximity of the neurosphere to the tumor cell enables the neurosphere to attack and kill the tumor cell. Nice. Simple. Elegant. Approximate time to clinical application: 2 years. Approximate cost to develop phage display in neuroblastoma to phase 1 clinical trial readiness: $250K. (Note that time and cost estimates for this research are my own based on my understanding of the issues involved and have not been reviewed by Dr. Krag. But I do believe them to be directionally accurate).
  • Giselle Sholler, MD, presented a lot of information:
    • Preclinical work on genomic analysis of patient samples for the development of the personalized clinical trial.
    • Identifying BTK as an important target of neuroblastoma tumor initiating cells which has led to preclinical work testing a BTK inhibitor.
    • TPI-287 trial that is currently open in Vermont – they recently just filled their first study cohort and should begin accruing for the 2nd cohort very soon. What is great about the TPI-287 trial design is that even though it’s a Phase I trial, she has designed it to be a multi-agent trial, but the first two rounds are single agent only, so the pharmaceutical company gets good toxicity and pharmacokinetics data, and then the additional adjuvant agent is added (Temodar). And though it’s a Phase I trial, like all smartly-designed trials for a rare disease like neuroblastoma, they collect efficacy data (ie, does it work?) in addition to the study’s main purpose which is to measure toxicity and establish an MTD (max. tolerated dose).
  • Craig Webb, PhD, showed how he is developing predictive models from tumor-derived molecular data that can systematically identify targeted treatments from existing pharmacopeia for metastatic and/or refractory neuroblastoma. The methodology and processes that he created form the basic underpinnings of a possible predictive or “personalized” clinical trial for 2nd-relapse/progression after relapse and refractory neuroblastoma patients.
  • Nai-Kong Cheung, MD, PhD, the keynote speaker from Memorial-Sloan Kettering Cancer Center in NYC and a noted neuroblastoma expert, presented a history of immunology and immunotherapy in neuroblastoma. While Cheung had no new data to present, it was good to hear his perspective and point-of-view on how MSK treats kids with its 3F8 immunotherapy treatment. In retrospect, I think it might have been good to give 3F8 a try on Max – I know some people reading this will cringe that I’m playing “coulda-shoulda-woulda” and that I should feel confident that we did all that we could and that we made all the right decisions regarding Max’s treatment. But until you’ve experienced what we have experienced, fighting neuroblastoma for the four years that Max did, you don’t get to make that call ;)
Afterwards, the parents present gathered for a few minutes alone with each other. Gilles Frydman, (founder of ACOR.org) whom I got to moderate the last panel of the day on Therapeutic Decision Making in Neuroblastoma, provided us with some helpful perspective on what other cancer groups have done to successfully move research forward quickly.

Overall, it was very good to see some of the newest ideas for how we might be able to find therapies that improve chances of survival for these kids while being less toxic to their little bodies. At the same time, while energized from being around "my people", I also came away depressed that my fight continues on behalf of kids I know, but whom aren't mine. Still, continuing is the only option for me. I can't think of a greater purpose than doing all that I can to defeat neuroblastoma.

I returned to San Diego on Friday. On Sunday, some of the medical students at UVM as well as Friends of Will ran teams in the Burlington Marathon to raise money for Dr. Sholler's program. In all, $30,000 was raised!

5/25/2009

KUSI Interview for Touch-A-Truck

On Saturday morning, May 23, we were invited over to our very-local TV station KUSI to advertise Touch-A-Truck! Our friends, the Mouratoff's, set-up the interview through Dave Stahl the Car Guy and let us borrow their Nascar and their daughter, to do a super great segment on the morning news.


Borrowing the car isn't quite as simple as it seems. NASCAR's are... well... a bit loud and not street legal. So the Mouratoff's actually got up with the sun, had the car trailered over to KUSI, unloaded it in the parking lot, pushed it into the back of the lot for the segment, then did the reverse to get it back to the car's home. It was quite a bit of work. All I had to do was show up and remember facts about the fundraiser!

A big "thanks" to them and to Erin for being the NASCAR spokesperson.

In addition to being able to climb in and get your photo taken in this NASCAR, we've added a few more vehicles to the line-up:

5/19/2009

Busy two weeks coming up

The next two weeks will be very busy indeed. Tomorrow, I fly to Vermont for the Developments in Neuroblastoma Research Symposium, where I am giving the welcome. I'll speak briefly about Max - reminding everyone in the audience the ultimate purpose of why we're all assembled in that one auditorium together - and then give a message about the power of collaboration and what can happen when parents get involved. It will be the first time I've had to speak about Max in front of a large audience since his death. I hope I hold it together. The symposium itself should be very good, with Nai-Kong Cheung from Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center (MSKCC) the keynote speaker. Cheung and MSKCC developed an antibody therapy for use in neuroblastoma called 3F8 that uses mouse-derived antibodies to target a receptor on a neuroblastoma cell. When 3F8 is injected into the bloodstream, it travels through the body until it attaches to the marker GD2 that is present on all neuroblastoma cells. The attachment of 3F8 to a neuroblastoma cell signals the patient's own immune system (e.g. the white blood cells) to treat neuroblastoma cells as foreign. In other words, the 3F8 directs the patient's immune system, which ordinarily acts only to control infections, to attack neuroblastoma cells and kill them.

Max's doctor from Children's San Diego - Dr. Roberts - will be at the sumposium as well, as part of the new Neuroblastoma and Medulloblastoma Translational Research Consortium (NMTRC) that includes San Diego, St. Louis, MDAnderson (Houston) and Vermont hospitals. Also very exciting is that I got Gilles Frydman to moderate the final panel of the day, on therapeutic decision-making. Gilles is somewhat of a rock-star in the cancer/patient advocacy world. He started ACOR, which is one of the oldest online disease communities, and the largest online cancer community. ACOR is where NB parents connect online to share advice, provide support, and learn about new treatments.

Also great to hear is that many other parents and parent-foundations will be at the symposium, including parents from Ishan Gala Foundation, Friends of Will, Band of Parents, MagicWater, Grace Oughton Cancer Foundation, and others. It is through the combination of all our efforts that we will find a cure for neuroblastoma sooner. Just to let everyone know, these parents - myself included - take valuable vacation days from our day jobs, and spend our own personal money (not their foundation's), to attend events like the Vermont Symposium. 

I mention how money is used, as on the 31st of this month (Melis' birthday in case you're keeping track) is Max's Ring of Fire's first fundraiser called Touch A Truck.We hope to raise $10,000 for Dr. Sholler's neuroblastoma research program at UVM with this event. We're well on our way with over $1,000 in tickets already purchased, but still have a ways to go. If you are planning on going, it would be great if you buy your tickets in advance as this helps us know how many people will be coming. And if you're not coming, why not buy a ticket anyway? We're inviting all the families actively being treated at Children's Hospital San Diego free of charge, many who otherwise might not be able to afford the ticket price, so sponsor a family today if you can!

Max in Vermont at the ECHO Science Center, Jan 2007 during hopeful times.
 

5/14/2009

Touch-A-Truck Confirmations

Check these out:
Del Mar Lifeguards truck & boat



2 Harley Trikes++

$25 per family
$15 per family for active military w/ ID
$25 per group in uniform: girl scout troops, boy scout dens, indian guide tribes

Buy your tickets online at
www.MaxsRingOfFire.org
or at the entrance on the day of the event.
Cash or check only please at the event.

To download a flyer to help us spread the word about this awesome event, click here. Post it in your local coffee shop, community boards, pass it out at your school!
If you have a special vehicle that you would like to share with kids, please download our Participation form and return it ASAP. We would LoVe to have you participate!


The Party Game Truck

Winston Cup Nascar
Soccerball Bug
Also the Petco Mobile Grooming van + a dog; Rose Towing tow trucks; two school buses; fire engines; police car or two if everyone in Carmel Valley behaves; mini cooper.
More to come...

5/12/2009

Max's Ring Of Fire May 2009 Update

An email newsletter was sent out last night to our small but growing number of people who have signed up to receive email updates from Max's Ring of Fire - to view the newsletter you may click here. If you'd like to get your updates on Max's Ring of Fire via email, you can sign up here. Otherwise, if you're a "fan" of us on Facebook you'll get updates there - and if you're on Facebook but not a fan of Max's Ring of Fire yet, here's the link for that too. And we'll continue to post updates on our progress with Max's Ring of Fire here on Max's blog. Thanks to everyone for all your support.

5/10/2009

Touch-A-Truck

Sunday - May 31, 2009
12:00-3:00
Canyon Crest Academy in Carmel Valley
where Del Mar Hgts Rd meets Carmel Valley Rd
Put your imagination in gear and go! Join us for Max's Ring of Fire's 1st Annual
TOUCH A TRUCK
where kids get a chance to get behind the wheel and rub elbows with their hometown heroes. Come and climb on and explore dozens of your favorite vehicles including big rigs, fire engines, police cars and construction trucks.

Please join us for an awesome family-friendly afternoon while supporting our efforts to fund pediatric cancer research for neuroblastoma, the cancer that Max battled for four of his seven short years.

5951 Village Center Loop Road
San Diego, Ca 92130


$25 per family
$15 per family for active military w/ ID
$25 per group in uniform: girl scout troops, boy scout dens, indian guide tribes

Buy your tickets online at
www.MaxsRingOfFire.org
or at the entrance on the day of the event.
Cash or check only please at the event.

To download a flyer to help us spread the word about this awesome event, click here. Post it in your local coffee shop, community boards, pass it out at your school!
If you have a special vehicle that you would like to share with kids, please download our Participation form and return it ASAP. We would LoVe to have you participate!

Special appearances by the

Stormtroopers? Jedi? Darth Vader? We never know who'll show up!

4/27/2009

Train Ride - June 27, 2009

Max at his Make-A-Wish August 2005 - Griffith Park LA

On Saturday, June 27th, to kick off Max's birthday week, we'll be taking a ride on the Pacific Southwest Railway Museum's Golden State Excursion. We'd like to invite one and all to join us for this little trip on an old train in honor of Max.
Saturday, June 27th
11:00am
Way out in Campo (It's probably going to be HOT)
Tickets are available at the link above, just be sure to select the 11:00am ride. Wear your Max attire (orange)! (If you're interested, Andy designed some t-shirts that are pretty cool, click here.)
We will post more about Max's birthday week as soon as we have it all nailed down. I think Max's birthday is the hardest thing for me to face so far. It's such an odd sensation not visualizing growth from one of your kids as their birthday approaches. Everything stands still at this point, and the "forever 7" doesn't seem so sweet at times like that. But I know with the support of all our Max followers we will weather this and be stronger in the end.

4/17/2009

Life is a constant challenge, but it is worthwhile

Xinxin passed away on January 10, 2009. Her mom posted this recently. No matter where you are in your life, what a friend of hers wrote below reaffirms what we all know is true. Make sure you click the link below to read the balance of her friend's wisdom.

Have you ever observed the behaviour of birds in the face of adversity?

For days and days they make their nests, sometimes gathering materials brought from far away

And when they have completed the nest and are ready to

lay eggs, the weather, or the work of humans, or some

animal, destroys it, and it falls to the ground, all that they

have done with so much effort

Do they stop? Continue the challenge here

4/09/2009

Erin....



The first likely female president of the United States (don't believe me? read this) passed away from neuroblastoma today at the much too much early age of 11. As any of you who followed Erin's story via her parent's blog, her bright face was what you saw in the dictionary when you looked up the term "full of life". She also happened to to have her picture featured when you looked up "smart", "savvy", "worldly", "fun", "amazing", and "crafty". I am not being overly dramatic when I say that our country and our world lost someone great today. You just knew Erin would do amazing things for society.

And we're worried about saving GM....

4/08/2009

A place for Max

This is Max's urn being created. The artist has been kind enough to give us a window into the creation of the vessel that will become the final, final home of Max's earthly remains. Click here for a neat little slideshow that Chris (the artist) put together for us. We can't wait to see it, touch it and place Max in it.

3/31/2009

The Bridge

I've started having "moments" - you know (or maybe you don't), your standing in line at the supermarket when you realize you're going to start crying and nothing can stop the moment.It happens just about every Sunday in church. It's the music really. Sometimes the tune, sometimes the words. They stir me up inside and cause the tears to just flow silently. Standing in the kitchen the other night, the kids eating dinner at the table with Andy, it really hit me how less noise there is in the house without Max. The sounds of three kids interacting was so different. The tears came. I'm not sure if I like this. Of course, what's there to like? I suppose the numbness is starting to wear off. I knew it would. My arm amputation is finally starting to hurt. Unfortunately there are no pain pills for this save tears and heartache.
My heartaches for myself, for my Max, for Hannah & Nic & Andy. I guess it's that mom-gene kicking in that wants to take everyones pain away, but knowing it's simply not possible.
Last night at bedtime, Nic said to me, "I like Max more than Hannah." I understand. They were closer in age, just like Hannah and Max were closer. The difference in age between Nic and Hannah is so great (6 years) and the bridge between them - Max - is gone. It's hard for them to interact. Nic talks about Max every night at bedtime. We read a book, sing some lullabies, then he says, "Let's talk about Max." I love that he does that.

3/27/2009

You Can't Wish For A Cure, You Have to Work For A Cure

Another fantastic article in the Carmel Valley News highlighting the work that continues in the fight against neuroblastoma, and not only in San Diego, not only in Vermont, but across the country. Parents both working together and on their own are doing amazing things, including the Band of Parents , Ishan Gala Foundation , Friends of Will , and or course my old home, Magic Water , which continues (as it should) despite my leaving to focus on Max's Ring of Fire. Please take a moment to visit the websites listed above and learn more about what everyone is doing, in an amazingly uncoordinated but still synchronized focus of effort to push for the research and clinical application of therapies that will turn this killer into something benign. Post their URLs on your blog, facebook, etc to help spread the word and THANKS for continuing to come here and help remember Max along with us.

Max Mikulak’s father backs new alliance of pediatric doctors, researchers dedicated to finding cure for fatal disease.
By Catherine Kolonko

A Carmel Valley father who lost his son to relapsed neuroblastoma last year is championing a group of doctors dedicated to finding a cure for the fatal disease.

A new alliance of pediatric doctors and researchers in San Diego and across the United States are pooling resources to conduct multi-site clinical trials to test new treatments for children whose lives are at stake. Like Max Mikulak, a popular 7-year-old Carmel Valley boy who died last August, time is running out for these children because there is currently no known cure for relapsed neuroblastoma, a type of pediatric brain cancer that is diagnosed in about 600 children per year in the United States and has only a 30 percent survival rate.

Almost 80 percent of children with cancer become long-term survivors, but then there are 20 percent that don’t, according to Dr. William Roberts , an oncologist at Rady Children’s Hospital in San Diego who treated Max’s cancer. For children with relapsed neuroblastoma the outlook has been bleak.
Doctors and families fighting the disease share a frustration that while there are drugs that if tested might work for these children there is no business reason to pursue them. The approved treatment options are limited just because of the relatively small number of children affected by the deadly cancer.

This has culminated in the formation of a new clinical trials consortium, the TRC or Translational Research Consortium, with San Diego functioning as one of the four core sites, the others being Vermont, St. Louis, Mo., and Houston. Having more sites geographically situated throughout the United States should ease the burden of families with sick children who must travel to seek care for them.

Roberts said the consortium will allow doctors caring for children with neuroblastoma to compare treatments and diseases on a larger scale. The idea, which is not new but has proven beneficial, is to feed data to a central data base. “In one center we may see six to 10 kinds of neruoblastoma per year,” he said. But pooling efforts “allows us to learn much more rapidly.”

Neuroblastoma is an aggressive disease in which malignant cancer cells form in nerve tissue of the adrenal gland, neck, chest, or spinal cord. By the time it is diagnosed, the cancer has usually metastasized most often to the lymph nodes, bones, bone marrow, liver and skin, according to the National Cancer Institute. Usual treatment options involve high doses of chemotherapy, radiation and stem cell transplant.

One of the doctors participating in the consortium, Giselle Sholler, of the University of Vermont , said she and others involved with the alliance came together in San Diego last month to begin the process of forming the consortium. They recently held their first conference call to discuss the plans for future clinical trials.

“We mapped out five other trials we want to get started this year,” Sholler said in a telephone interview from Vermont.

The first trial has already begun and with the first patient expected to be enrolled on March 19. The trial will test a drug called TPI-287, a new chemotherapy that will be used alone and in combination with other therapies, Sholler said. The idea initially started with the question of “how can we make it so families don’t have to travel so far” for treatment. The doctors who care for these vulnerable young patients also want to focus on treatments with quality of life in mind, which means investigating treatments that are lower in toxicity than traditional therapies while improving their conditions, she said.

Andy Mikulak, Max’s father, is excited about the consortium and what its future success could mean for children who face the same fate as his son. He believes it could nearly double the number of trials available for neuroblastoma patients.

“It’s great for kids. We basically blanketed the U.S,” Mikulak said.

Sholler said she finds inspiration from children facing such difficult battles who, with the love of their families like the Mikulaks, fight the disease with a smile and cheerful outlook.

“It’s such an honor to be able to care for them,” she said.

A key benefit to the consortium is the faith it can give families to carry on in their battles against this devastating pediatric disease, Sholler said.

“I think this going to bring a lot of hope to families…I think it’s needed,” she said.

Sholler said that she admires the Mikulaks’ efforts to continue to look for answers after their son’s death. “It makes my day more meaningful,” she said.

Though he does not work for the consortium, Mikulak, a marketing executive, said he feels a strong connection to those involved because they also participated in the care of his son. “Max was kind of the common link that started their collaboration” he said. Mikulak sees himself as “an advocate connector, who ultimately represents “all the neuroblastoma kids,” he said.

While the alliance is just getting off the ground, there are six other institutions interested in joining the consortium, Roberts said. “There’s this excitement to saying ‘Wow this may be useful’.”

Meanwhile, Mikulak and his wife Melissa have decided to devote their energy to raising awareness about the disease and funding for future clinical trials sponsored by the consortium, he said in a recent interview. They recently formed a charity in their son’s honor called Max’s Ring of Fire and are planning a fundraising event for later this year. The charity is so named because Max loved the song Ring of Fire, especially the version by Social Distortion, said Mikulak, who noted in an email that the ring also symbolizes an interconnected loop of people joining the efforts to find a cure for neuroblastoma.

“It is amazing as we grow this ring, this circle of people touched by Max's story, what has happened so far and what will likely happen,” he said.

Mikulak’s faith in Sholler and her work is based on his experience with her during Max’s most difficult days before his death, he said. She gave him her cell phone number and responded quickly to an email Mikulak sent on one particularly difficult night with Max’s disease.

“She just cares so much about these kids,” Mikulak said. “She is in this thing 24/7.”

It was that dedication and passion plus her dual work as a researcher and a clinician that prompted Mikulak and his wife to decide to focus all their fund raising efforts on promoting her work.

Mikulak was introduced to Sholler through Max who was involved in a phase 1 clinical trial designed to test the safety of nifurtimox that in lab testing appeared to have anti-tumor properties. The antibiotic previously used to treat a child for a parasitic disease known as Chagas appeared to shrink or kill neuroblastoma tumor cells. Sholler’s findings eventually led to the phase 1 clinical trial that included Max as a patient.

A phase 2 clinical trial headed by Sholler is underway in Vermont to further investigate the use of nifurtimox alone or in combination with other drugs as treatment of relapsed or refractory neuroblastoma and medulloblastoma.

Mikulak first became involved in fundraising for neuroblastoma through the Magic Water Project which he cofounded with Neil Hutchinson, another father who has a son with the same disease. The organization is dedicated to funding cancer research on relapsed neuroblastoma and medulloblastoma and funds clinical trials and other research on innovative, low toxicity treatments.

The day after a memorial celebration for Max, a few hundred people participated in a walk in Balboa Park to raise money for the MagicWater Project. Just over $18,000 was collected from the fundraiser, which was sponsored by RealAge.com , Mikulak’s employer. When plans to fund million dollar scanner a Rady’s Children’s Hospital hit a snag, the money from the walk and other donations totaling $30,000 was instead used to purchase equipment in Dr. Sholler’s research lab, Mikulak said.

Mikulak has since left the Magic Water Project so that he and his wife can devote there fundraising efforts to Max’s Ring of Fire, he said. They started the charity after Max died in part for the same reasons many parents do after their child dies — they want to memorialize their children and the battle they fought, Mikulak said.

“I wanted to tell the story of Max’s battle,” he said.

With the help of a neighbor Max and his wife have filed the paperwork to form their charity. They are in the early stages of planning the charity’s first big fundraiser, dubbed Maxapalooza, for some time in August in what they hope will be an annual event. More information on the couple’s fundraising efforts are chronicled at the new website http://www.MaxsRingOfFire.org/ .

3/13/2009

Test Pilots

 
Max at last year's Clash

Tomorrow, Melissa is volunteering at the Clash At Clairmont III, a really great skate-themed fundraiser for cancer held in San Diego every year. Last year, I took Max and we got hooked-up with great all-access passes courtesy of Lisa Sturt's husband Daniel (also responsible for the awesome Star Wars video). Lisa was Max's first grade teacher and was his second grade teacher as well but then you know how that story goes....

March 2008 was so incredible. Legoland (2x). Kustom Kar Show at Del Mar. Pinewood Derby. Clash at Clairmont. We knew. We just didn't admit it to ourselves. I hold on to those memories of some of the last relatively carefree days with Max so tightly. They are more precious than anything that could ever be.

As Melissa posted a couple of days ago, we've had a good week for Maxapalooza. Everything depends on the venue. And the venue that was needed was not "normal". After all, a WWII/Skate/Lego/Punk Rock/Star Wars-themed event does not take place at your local Holiday Inn Suites ballroom (not even the grand ballroom). On our last trip to Disneyland, weeks before Max died, we sat in California Adventure in the Condor Ridge area next to Soaring Over California (next to Star Tours, Max's fav ride). The soundtrack to The Right Stuff plays over the scene. Airplane hangars; the Jet Age; the Right Stuff. it was all perfect. I remember sitting there, looking around, knowing what was to come soon, and thinking: This is it. This is the theme of Max's life. This is what Living Life to the Max means. It means even though the plane that you are about to climb into has never been flown before, you climb in anyway. Max, and those test pilots, had no other choice. It was live life, to the fullest, no matter the outcome.

Here's the lineup so far:
- September 26 *may change, stay tuned for details.
- Palomar airport, Carlsbad (Premier Jet is sponsoring - thank you!!)
- P51 Mustang in bitchin' olive drab and red/yellow checker (red/yellow make orange ya know).
- Other warbirds (WWII fighters) TBD but likely.
- Flyover by F-5, F-18 and hopefully a warbird - missing man formation likely.
- Skate program TBD but looking good.
- Band TBD but lot's of options and connections to run down.

We need some help. If you or someone you know is interested in helping us out with the following, please contact me!
- Web producer - integrate myriad transactional (donations/auctions), social networking (blogs), etc.
- T-shirt/apparel designer(s) - to produce a line of MROF (that'd be Max's Ring of Fire) merch via Zazzle or other.
-Facebook/social media guru - someone to build/maintain a shiznit presence on Facebook, Twitter, Flickr, etc (we have a great group on Fb already thanks to Shannon - come join us!).
- For Maxapalooza, an event coordinator/manager so Melis and I can leave the details to someone else while we focus on big picture (i.e., $$/guest experience) stuff.

3/11/2009

Signs

Had a great Monday, although I wasn’t expecting it to be…

You see, we’re planning our first annual fundraiser, Maxapalooza. There are certain elements that we absolutely have to have at the event in order to really make it a proper Max memorial. Of all the elements we have been hell bent on honoring, the biggest two are planes and skateboarding – two things, we have found, that are hard to combine from a logistical point of view. I’ve been searching for the right venue since November and am getting ready to cave. Any dumb parking lot will do.

Back to Monday…
Friday night I had volunteered at a big fundraiser for SD Childrens Hosp and had a post-event meeting scheduled to attend Monday morning. That morning I received a call saying everything went great at the event and the meeting isn’t necessary. So after dropping Hannah & Nicky off at their schools I headed home and decided to make one more call to Palomar Airport to try to get a hangar for Maxapalooza. My first call gifted me with the name and number to one of the biggest hangars at the airport. I phoned and he explained that renting hangars for events isn’t in their standard operating procedures, but they’ve done it in the past and he had a space I could look at. “Great,” I answered. “I can be there at 10:00.”

Thirty minutes later we’re opening the door to one of the hangars he had in mind and guess what’s parked inside. P51 Mustang. I stood there staring, “Is that a Mustang? That’s Max’s favorite plane.” I don’t think he believed me. ha ha!The space ended up being great. Very close to what we had originally hoped for. This turn of events on a Monday morn has me feeling great. (Oh – Social D’s Ring of Fire played on the radio on my drive home.)

Later that afternoon my hangar contact calls. We’re on speaker phone with another person who works at the hangar. They had opened Max’s Ring of Fire website and saw right away that I wasn’t kidding about the P51. They read about Max and what we are trying to accomplish in his memory and were totally excited about the event and about helping us with it. They had placed a call to the owner of the P51 to see if we could feature it at the event (yes!), and had already thought of more guys to call who own warbirds. They’re also hooked into the skateboarding industry as a nephew is sponsored by Grind for Life (the event I’m volunteering at this Saturday)! (Talk about coming full circle.)

I returned to the airport Tuesday morning to go over the paperwork necessary to host an event at the airport. Once the paperwork is approved by the county in 2-3 weeks we can prepare for launch! I ask what the cost of the space will be and they offered to sponsor the space for Maxapalooza. Wow, and thank you.

Can you believe this? My head is still spinning. Just when I was about to give up on this whole airplane thing everything falls into place – better than I could’ve ever hoped for. I’m not sure if I’m more excited or more relieved! This event is going to rock!

Dumb luck? I don’t know. We see signs of Max everywhere we go. Some more obvious than others – like a P51 Mustang parked in the hangar I’m looking at. I started really feeling and thinking differently about Max’s Ring of Fire on Monday. What it means to me. It’s not just a song Max sang and the name of a non-profit org. I’m not sure I can write this clearly… there’s this ring that is Max. And it’s spreading out; growing. Capturing more people, who in turn push the ring out to encompass more people. It doesn’t weaken as is expands, it becomes stronger. Love is a burning thing, and it makes a fiery ring. Jump in our ring. Let's make this thing big!

3/08/2009

Clash@Clairemont3 March 14, 2009

Thought I'd plug another great fundraiser coming up this weekend - I will be there all day volunteering/working. This event is open to the public to watch the biggest names in skateboarding and BMX stunt riding on the largest outdoor vert ramp on the West Coast. A $10 donation will let anyone in the door (6yrs and under are free), and includes food, drinks, raffle prizes, and much more and benefits the YMCA and “Grind for Life,” an organization that provides financial assistance to cancer patients and their families. This is an excellent venue for families to experience skateboarding at it's best. Hope to see you there! (The photo above of Max on the vert ramp was taken at this event last year.)

3/06/2009

Cody 3/6/9



I've been following Cody's blog for some time. About 6 weeks ago, his neuroblastoma took a turn for the worse. For me, it was especially hard to watch because his decline so closely resembled Max's. Every angel parent, and justifiably so, is convinced that losing their child is the greatest trajedy of all. For me personally, losing Max at 7 and Cody being 6 is especially tough. At their ages, they have developed complex personalities. They are reading, writing, expressing themselves. As parents, this age is one of transition and rapid growth. We can 'hang' with them at this age. As boys, they begin to understand the finer qualities of things with pistons, things that burn fuel, and things that explode or perhaps cause other things to explode. Important stuff when you're a boy (or an older boy that just so happens to have to work for a living).

Cody loved Legos. Tonight, me, Nic and Hannah will build Legos in Cody's honor. If I'm right about this, Max and Cody are working on their Lego Jungle Cutters up in heaven right now.